A baby does not understand much yet. It is only when he becomes aware of his environment that he begins to learn to understand. As the baby grows up, he will try to understand the world around him. As he/she grows up, he/she will question you. "Why?" is a question that you will be asked ad nauseam. In that simple question lies a deep longing for knowledge. A mentally healthy person will continue to ask that question throughout his/her life. As one grows in consciousness, the questions arise; "How is that possible?", "Is this correct?" and “How should it continue?”. Later the question is asked: "What can I do with my life?" Many things come your way that are incomprehensible. However you turn it and turn it, they are incomprehensible. There are also things that are not so difficult to understand, but one do not understand them because one is too learned and therefore do not understand the simple things in life anymore.

We are obsessed with psychological well-being, says a psychiatry professor in a video message. This cannot be good, he adds. That makes sense, because an obsession can lead to perversions. However, being caring about psychological well-being can never be bad. But what is psychological well-being? What is understood by it? Someone can be psychologically well, if he/she has everything his/her heart desires and has no further desires. This is how most people live. If I have this or if I have that, then I will be happy. And indeed there are people who are happy with that and don't want anything else. Is this psychological well-being? Does it stop there? Just keep holding on to what you have? If that is the case for you, you are a happy person with a high sense of well-being. So everything is fine. You don't have to worry any more.

Years ago we attended a lecture that was promisingly titled "The Feminine Will Save the World!". That sounded good and we went there of course. Not that we went to lectures much, but we could not ignore such a promise.

Relationships have always intrigued me. Love relationships certainly got my attention. I (Eddy) often wondered why people got into a love relationship and then misbehaved in it. That didn't seem to make sense to me.

Until today (21-03-2021) I (Eddy) thought I knew what it meant to get to know your Self. … I was wrong. Easy. I didn't know at all what it really meant.

Unity is a beautiful concept. If one brainstorms about it, one inevitably gets other beautiful concepts such as, love, peace, equilibrium, balance, harmony, ... You can undoubtedly add more. A life in unity is a sought after item for many spiritual seekers. One wants to spent a lot of time, energy and money on it. This can be seen in the many courses and treatments that are offered to get people who are out of balance back into balance.

Wisdom makes life a lot easier. You will gain insight into your own life much faster and you will also know faster when you are following the right path. You know which choices you have and which choice is best for that one moment in that one situation. You also know that those moments and those situations can be combined. And that the outcome of a choice depends on that choice itself. There is only one condition in which wisdom can work. That wisdom must be real. Studied wisdom will never lead to the best outcome of the best choice. All outcomes are subject to an inward understanding or not understanding of the wisdom one takes into his / her considerations.

Before we begin with this insight, let's make it clear that we believe that spirituality has nothing to do with reading the cards, clairvoyance, taking courses, receiving initiations from other people, etc… These are just skills that one can develop. Just as one can learn to paint. One will be able to paint better than the other. Chances are that if you ask someone what spirituality is, they will list the above skills.

On our English homepage we write that we live in a time when many imperfections are brought to light. It just seems unstoppable. We are not left alone anymore. One has not yet recovered from the one thing, or the other thing is already there. It takes a lot of energy and also discernment from each of us to continue to deal with it. A lot of people think they are in a bad movie and in a sense it is.

Copy, we all know it. You observe people with whom you associate and copy and paste what suits you best on your own life.

Many people who are spiritually oriented have questions about sexuality. "I am spiritual, does sex still belong in my experience?" is one of the many questions one asks when walking the spiritual path. A valid question that can be answered with yes and no.

We are very simple people and try to keep our site as simple as possible.

That's because you are special. There is no one but you who walks that path. You have been chosen to walk the spiritual path. God told you to! There is no one but you who understands what this world is all about. You walk this path because you are being trained to save the world. ...

You don't have to be a champion to write. I (Eddy) love to write. Not Rita, she has other qualities that complement my writing talent. Thanks to her insights that go deeper than mine, I can write what I write. See our insight 'Do you write together?' and also this site!

In the religious as well as the alternative thinking, silence of thought is put forward as the solution to all problems. But is this really the solution?

We believe that in this world nothing is more important than the growth in the 'Divine Consciousness'.

In our view, Universal Energy is an energy that is all pervasive and all supportive.

For many people the word 'God' is a loaded word. Even people who are engaged in spiritual growth have difficulty with the word 'God'.

We have started groping around for what God really is and what He can do for us in our lives. We approach life in a more rational way and everything that is of no use goes out.

"God is Life!"

Criticizing others is a sensitive topic for many people.

We love to be happy. We are fortunate to have met each other and to have come into the true flow of our lives.

In this insight we spoke of exemplary people. In this insight we would like to dig deeper into this topic.

A seriously underestimated quality in a love relationship is humor.

We wrote this article shortly after we got together (2005). We both had a serious shortage of sex in our relationship at the time.

In our insight "Am I spiritual?" we tell in a simple way that everyone is spiritual but most people have forgotten that. They have simply forgotten what it is to be spiritual. That oblivion has invited many people to raise spirituality to a level that "seems" unattainable for everyone.

Earlier we wrote that a love relationship is an instrument that can lead both partners to a relationship in a higher consciousness.

One often reads that the internet is not so good for socialization. It would separate people further from each other. Social media would certainly be guilty of this. Strange and also funny is that such messages can be read on the internet, including on social media.

Our society has gone unnoticed into an information addiction. We know no better than that this is completely normal. That's how we were raised.

As a twin soul, we have "never" been in love with each other.

In the alternative event, the assumption is that if "it feels right, it's okay". This is a big lie that many spiritual people get caught up in. The result is that they keep going in circles without ever getting around.

Every person has talents, they may not be immediately visible but they are absolutely there. If one stops comparing oneself with others and looks at what one can do well, one automatically finds one's own talents.

Ask anyone if he / she lives his / her own life and chances are you get "Yes of course." in response.

Texts, stories, fairytales, they can help you in your life study. They don't have to be religious in nature to use them in your daily life. We don't practice any religion but we do love inspiring stories of all kinds.

During the many conversations we have together about God and everything that goes with it, everything that is, we are always looking for simplicity.

Suicide is a difficult subject, but certainly not a taboo. If a topic is difficult, it is quickly classified under the label "taboo".

Since we first came into contact with the concept of "lightworker", and that has been a while ago, we have known nothing else than that lightworkers always have a hard time.

True Spirituality is not something to be acquired, it is ingrained in each of us.

This is an older article that we have not edited. You understand it or you don't!

We live in a dualistic world. This knowledge makes us think about the pros and cons of developments in any field. We owe that to ourselves, to the world and to society.

Let's pop the bubble "Free !!!" right away. Then we are also rid of that. Free is an illusion! It doesn't exist, someone has ever paid for it somewhere.

On the net one can find the following about politeness; “Politeness is a social skill that facilitates interaction in society.

Self-study, in our opinion, should precede spiritual belief.

A lot of people just don't have time for love. To illustrate this, we have made up a 'story' that can be recognized in different situations. It is a dialogue between us and a spiritual counselor at a spiritual gathering.

The most fascinating and interesting question I ever got was "How does a man think about this topic?" This question has led to my (Eddy) awareness about being a man.

Reading comprehension is sometimes a difficult task. Before we respond to a text, we discuss together what has been written and how we could possibly respond to it. It is in our nature to want to understand what the author has written.

Through a comment we got the following interesting questions;

Is twin soulship provable? … Just as no conclusive proof can be provided that one has a Soul.